Crispy Fried Fish with Spicy Yellow Sauce (Ikan Pesmol)

One of the most perfect Indonesian lunches, in my opinion, consists of this dish, served with stir-fried snake beans, bean sprouts and tempe, and a plate of hot steamed rice. This is Indonesian home cooking, and definitely something that my grandmother, mother and aunts have been cooking and eating their whole lives. It is light and delicious with many different textures and colors. I get very greedy when I see this being served on the table!

I use dorado fish in this dish (called mahi-mahi in Indonesian), but you can use any mild-tasting fish like pomfret, gourami or sea bass. I prefer smaller fish that can be fried until very crispy, although some people prefer thick, meaty fish fillets. It's really up to you. The sauce is mouthful and savoury, slightly spicy from the chilies, fragrant with lime leaves and slightly sweetened by the tender spring onion. The candlenuts make the sauce taste very rich without making it heavy, which means it doesn't mask the taste of the fish. Perfect for a seafood lunch.

The accompanying vegetable dish, stir-fried snake beans, bean sprouts and tempe is one of the easiest vegetarian stir-fries there is. It takes hardly any time to cook, and perfect to be eaten on its own because the tempe provides protein and a meaty bite. Because it tastes very mild, it's a suitable pairing for bolder-tasting dishes. 

Crispy Fried Fish with Spicy Yellow Sauce (Ikan Pesmol)

For 6 people

6 whole fish/fish fillets (dorado, pomfret, gourami, sea bass), 1 per person

Juice of 2 limes

3 tsp powdered turmeric

3 lime leaves

5 or more chilies (a mix of red, orange and green), cut into diagonal slices

2 spring onion, cut into 3-cm chunks

2 medium tomatoes, cut into wedges

200 ml water

Salt and sugar to taste

To be made into a smooth paste:

9 shallots

5 garlic cloves

3 tsp powdered turmeric

2 cm ginger or 2 tsp powdered ginger

2 cm galangal or laos

1 lemongrass, the thick white part only

9 candlenuts

If using whole fish, make sure the fish is scaled, gutted and thoroughly cleaned. Cut deep diagonal slices on the flesh of the fish, and mix the fish with the lime juice (save 2 tablespoon for later use), turmeric powder and some salt. Leave to marinate in the fridge for about 20 minutes.

Using a blender or a pestle and mortar, make a smooth paste of the spice paste ingredients. Saute the paste on a hot wok with some oil. Once fragrant, add the lime leaves, chilies, the remaining 2 tablespoon lime juice and water. Add salt and sugar to taste.

Once it comes to the boil, lower the heat and add the tomatoes and spring onion. The low heat will ensure that the tomato juice comes out and flavors the sauce. Simmer for 5-10 more minutes.

Meanwhile, deep-fry the fish until golden brown and very crispy. Drain on kitchen paper. To serve, pour the sauce over the fish and serve immediately.

Stir-Fried Snake Beans, Bean Sprouts and Tempe

For 6 people

3 large handfuls snake beans, cut into 3-cm chunks

4 large handfuls bean sprouts

2 large handfuls tempe, cut into 3-cm sticks 

5 garlic cloves, sliced thinly

3 shallots, sliced thinly

4 chilies, cut into diagonal slices

2 spring onion, cut into 3-cm chunks

1 chicken/vegetable stock cube

Salt, sugar and white pepper to taste

1 cup water

On a wok over high heat, heat up a few tablespoons of oil and sautee the garlic, shallots and chilies until fragrant. Add the snake beans and tempe. Season with the stock cube, salt, sugar and pepper. Add the water and turn the heat down to medium.

Once the snake beans and tempe are half cooked, add the bean sprouts and spring onion. Stir-fried until everything is cooked through but still crunchy. Do not overcook to retain the beautiful vibrant colours. 

Serve immediately.

Indonesian Mild Curry (Opor)

Opor, one of the most beloved curries in Indonesia, is very versatile. The original version calls for chicken, but it works very well with other mild-tasting protein like tempe (soy bean cake), tofu and hard-boiled eggs. It's also wonderful with vegetables -- snake beans and mushrooms are my favorite. I actually like the vegetarian version of opor better. The tofu soaks up the rich sauce very well, as does the tempe, and since this is a milder type of curry, it doesn't mask the subtle taste of the vegetables. And if you've never had  a curry with boiled eggs before, don't turn up your nose -- just keep reading and you'll see why!

Although this is one of our milder curries, it's bursting with flavors. The coconut milk sauce is enriched with an array of spices, and the palm sugar adds an almost coconut-y sweetness to the curry, which balances out the savoury note provided by the chicken broth. It's best eaten with a lot of rice to mop up the sauce!

Start with an obscene amount of spices...And chop up all your ingredients.

Blitz the spices using a blender, and dump on a hot wok with some oil.

After the spice paste becomes slightly yellow and very aromatic, add the coconut milk and the rest of the ingredients, except for the mushrooms.

The tofu is fried before hand, so that it's soft on the inside and crispy on the outside. The hard-boiled eggs are fried briefly until they develop a thin, crackly skin that's very scrumptious. There's something about the creamy egg yolk, the satiny smooth egg white and the crispy skin that pairs very well with the curry.

This recipe also uses snake beans, tempe and enoki mushrooms. These mushrooms retain a good bite even after cooking, which works very well with the sauce. 

Cook the curry on medium heat. Don't worry if the curry looks very pale at this stage, because the color will get darker later.

Let all the flavors marry...

Once the curry comes to a boil, add the mushrooms, and turn down the heat so that the curry is just simmering. Your curry is done after it's been simmering for about 10 minutes and it has no more hint of bitterness. This means that all the spices have been cooked thoroughly.

Indonesian Mild Curry (Opor)

For 8 people

1 block of tempe (soy bean cake), cut into thick strips

2 large blocks of tofu, cut into thick triangles

1 large bunch of snake beans, cut into 4 cm pieces

2 bunches of enoki mushrooms, bottom part chopped off and cut into chunks

8 hard-boiled eggs, skin peeled

1000 cc coconut milk, mixed with 250 cc water

Spice paste:

18 garlic cloves (I'm not kidding with my blog title)

15 shallots

12 candlenuts

3 tbsp coriander seeds

5 heaping tbsp palm sugar, shaved

1 tsp ground ginger

1/2 tsp ground cumin

1 lemongrass stalk, bruised

2 bay leaves

2-3 chicken/vegetable stock cube

white pepper, sugar and salt to taste

Deep-fry the tofu and boiled eggs until they form a thin skin. Drain on kitchen paper.

Grind all the spices for your spice paste using a blender or a food processor until smooth. Add some oil to the blender if it's difficult to blitz everything into a smooth paste.

Heat some oil in a large wok. Add the spice paste and sautee on medium heat until aromatic and the paste turns yellow.

Add the coconut milk that has been thinned with water to the wok. Add your eggs, tofu, tempe, snake beans, ground ginger, ground cumin, lemongrass stalk, bay leaves and stock cube as well. Stir well.

Bring everything to the boil, and then lower the heat until the curry is just simmering. Season with salt, sugar and pepper to your liking. Add the mushrooms and simmer for ten more minutes until the curry sauce doesn't have any hint of bitterness.

Serve with steamed rice.

Avocado and Coconut Ice Cream

Do you have any siblings?

Do they remember your birthday every year, and get you a nice present, and a sweet card with a thoughtful birthday message for you?

Do they break their piggy bank and get you an adorable yellow tea set as a housewarming gift because you just moved into a new house all by yourself?

Do they remind you about your mum's or you dad's birthday, because they know you suck at remembering birthdays?

Do they not get angry when you forget their birthday and not get them a present? Do they share their presents with you instead?

Do they make you cupcakes and cookies?

Do they throw you a "Welcome Home" party where they dress up all their dolls, get party hats and balloons because you're coming home for a holiday?

Do they think you're the coolest person in the world ever? Do they introduce you to their little friends precisely because they think you're the coolest there is?

Do they brag about you to their friends?

Do they want to be the first to congratulate you on your birthday, so very badly, that they congratulate you a day early?

Do they say they miss you when you call? Do they ask if you miss them?

Do they worry that you're still single?

Do they tell you as it is, and share their thoughts with you?

If they don't...that's okay, siblings aren't always great that way. But very fortunately for me, mine is. My sister Mezzaya is fantastic. My sister Mezzaya is fantastic because she does all these things. I thought of her when I made this ice cream -- we both love ice cream, and this ice cream is inspired by the drink that we used to order at a small restaurant near our house. I still remember the humid afternoons that we spent there, slurping a bowl of steaming broth and noodles and washing it down with a big glass of sweet avocado "juice".

I think she'll love this ice cream.

It's incredibly quick and easy to put together -- you'll take no more than 20 minutes to assemble it, and then you just have to pop it into the freezer. It does take 3 hours to set, but you don't have to do much during this time period. You only need to take it out of the freezer every 30 minutes and whisk it briefly to make sure that it stays smooth and creamy, instead of grainy and icy. You can then enjoy a scoop of fragrant and utterly delicious ice cream for as long as it keeps in your freezer. Not a lot of work for a wonderful result! 

Avocado and coconut are my favorites -- I love how creamy, rich and exotic they are. I love how they impart a subtle taste and fragrance to a dish, and how they can make a dish feel luxurious. Combined together, they create a voluptuous and exceptionally creamy ice cream. I also use the classic and well-loved combination of avocado and condensed milk here. In Indonesia, these two go together like salt and pepper. Avocado and condensed milk smoothie is available in most restaurants -- thick, smooth pureed avocado whipped with vanilla or chocolate condensed milk. Just imagining this drink in ice cream form makes me swoon! If you're an avocado lover, this is as good as it gets (Well, this and a bowl of kick-ass, freshly made guacamole!).

Please don't be afraid of making ice cream without an ice cream maker. People have been doing this for ages, and you can too! All you need are a blender or food processor, and a whisk, a spatula or a handheld mixer. If you follow my tips closely, you should end up with a beautiful pale jade and luscious ice cream.

Avocado and Coconut Ice Cream
Makes about 12 scoops

2 large or 3 medium ripe avocados
1 1/2 tbsp lemon juice
1/4 cup or 50 gr granulated sugar
3/4 can condensed milk
1 can or 375 ml thick coconut milk, chilled in the fridge

Do not skimp on the sugar or coconut milk -- sugar and fat help prevent the ice cream from being icy and grainy. Sugar and fat do not freeze or crystallize, and so adding the right amount to your ice cream is essential for the desired result. You can reduce the amount of sugar and condensed milk if you want to watch your sugar intake, but your ice cream won't be as creamy. My advice would be to follow the recipe and limit your consumption of the ice cream instead. A small scoop of the real deal is often better and more enjoyable than a lot of the fake stuff!

Scoop out the flesh of the avocado and place in the blender or food processor. Add the lemon juice and sugar; blitz until smooth.

Shake well the can of coconut milk, pour the content into the blender. Pour in the condensed milk as well. Blitz again until everything is mixed together. Don't worry if the ice cream seems too sweet at this stage, or if the coconut seems to overpower the avocado. By the time the ice cream is set, the sweetness and the coconut taste will be reduced , and the dominant taste will be the avocado.

Pour into a plastic or metal container and place in the freezer. Make sure your freezer is not overcrowded, or your ice cream will take longer to set. After 30 minutes, take the container out of the freezer and mix the ice cream with a whisk, a spatula or a handheld mixer thoroughly. Using a spatula, scrape down the sides of the container -- ice crystals are likely to form on the sides and you want to whisk these too to prevent an icy ice cream. Place the container back in the freezer.

Do this every 30 minutes for the next 2-4 hours, or until the ice cream is set. Scoop out and serve.

Prawns and Broccoli in Oyster Sauce

I just love seafood.

I grew up enjoying countless seafood dishes made by my mother, who is a superb cook. We had a weekend ritual -- every Sunday, we'd wake up early, go to the traditional market near my house, and buy a few days' worth of groceries. Grocery shopping with mum was always great fun, because she shopped generously, would always buy the most exotic fruits for dessert, and let you get anything you want. "It is, after all, the weekend," she'd say approvingly with a wink.

It was a marvelous traditional market with rows and rows of fresh produce, colorful traditional cakes and snack vendors with their fried goodies piled high, which were my absolute favorite. Those were the innocent days when I didn't worry about food coloring or fat content. With its narrow alleyways, muddy streets, stinky corners and sweaty shoppers, the market was not for everyone, but to my 10-year-old eyes, it was a magnificent and vibrant place full of all sorts of delicious things to cook. I think my love for cooking began there.

My job was to carry the shopping bags. We would start at the greengrocer's, where my mum would buy kilos of water spinach and cabbage and tomatoes and aubergines and stinky beans. Then we would move on to our butcher's, where huge chunks of meat hang on hooks from the ceiling, hovering slightly over our heads. The smell of the fresh meat would be so overpowering, and I'd always be stuck in between fat mothers who were competing to get the best part of the cow. I'd leave my mum, who'd be bargaining with the butcher, to order our chicken from the chicken lady. She had one of those huge ginzu knives that would make a convincing thud as it whammed at the chicken, cutting it into 8 pieces. And then we would get to the seafood vendor.

Ahh. That was the best part. Fish and fish and even more fish and prawns and squid and octopus and lobsters and tuna fillets and tiny shrimps and mussels and clams, all fresh off the boat and gleaming at me. My mother, who was wise enough to start educating me about food and cooking early in my life, would tell me to pick the freshest fish for her. At first I was disgusted at the idea of touching fish and checking the color of their gills and poking at the flesh to test the bounciness, but thankfully she made me do it anyway. Amazingly, when fish is really fresh, it doesn't smell fishy, it just smells fresh and briny like the sea! It became a personal joy to get my hand wet picking the best victims for our dinner. When I came to the Netherlands, I was surprised to find out how many people (also older ones) who don't know how to pick fresh fish. Their fish comes gutted and filleted in a styrofoam packaging in a supermarket. I think that can't compare to shopping for fish at a fish vendor.

Whatever sea bounty that we would bring home, my mum would always turn it into something delicious and special. Fried fish simply spiced with salt and turmeric, little fishes fried until crisp and tossed in a fiery chili sauce, prawns tossed in butter and honey, thick cod fillets cooked in a yellow curry with orange and green chili peppers, grilled squid drizzled with a sweet soy sauce...It helped me to embrace all sorts of food, and to instinctively look for variety in the ingredients that I use, now that I cook for myself.

This simple prawn and broccoli dish reminds me of home -- it's simply cooked, fresh and good for you. A lot of people are afraid of eating too much prawn because of its cholesterol content, but it's actually recently proven to be untrue. Prawns are an excellent source of protein and are lower in calories than meat, and actually help you to increase the level of healthy fat in your body, the kind that is good for you. Just google it!

Prawn and Broccoli in Oyster Sauce

For 2 people

1 tbsp Shaohsing rice wine/Chinese cooking wine/sherry

1 tbsp salty soy sauce

3-4 tbsp oyster sauce

1 tbsp sweet soy sauce (Indonesian kecap manis)

1 heaping tsp cornflour

a pinch ground white pepper

a dash of sesame seed oil

3 garlic cloves, minced

1/2 cup water

2 handfuls of medium prawns

2 handfuls of broccoli florets

oil for cooking

Mix the rice wine, salty soy sauce, oyster sauce, sweet soy sauce, white pepper and sesame seed oil in a cup. Dilute the cornflour in a few tablespoons of water and add to the sauce mix, mix well. Add the rest of the water and mix well. 

Heat some oil in a wok on a high heat until very hot and smoking. Toss in the garlic and stir fry for a few seconds. Add the prawns and toss around in the wok until the skin becomes pinkish. 

Add the broccoli, toss around for 20 seconds or so, then add a splash of water to create some steam. Cover and cook for a minute or two, just to get the broccoli crisp-tender (cooked through but still retaining a bite). 

Uncover, add the sauce and mix well. Lower the heat a bit if it starts splattering. Cook until the sauce thickens. Add more water if you like the dish to be more saucy. 

Have a taste and add more seasoning according to your liking.

Dish out and serve. 

Chocolate Cupcakes for Special People

Yes...I just whipped up over a dozen cupcakes. No...It's not just for the sake of gluttony.

The fact is, I have heroes in my life (o boy, that sounds like the beginning of a cheesy Chicken Soup for the Soul story), heroes who deserve cupcakes. Not just any cupcakes, but chocolate cupcakes with very chocolate-y chocolate frosting. 

Let me tell you about these heroes of mine.

Of course, in our lives, there are the mothers, the fathers, the best friends -- those that we can't imagine living without. They are our own personal heroes in their own right. But the ones I'm talking about are a bit different. They are my allies, my camaraderie. Individuals who were once total strangers to me, but who now support my cause, share my dreams, work together with me toward these dreams, and provide me with mental support, much more than they know, every single day.

When I started my foundation, Future Minds, I was scared shitless that nobody would want to join me. Who knows, maybe nobody would care enough to join. I was also unsure about how good a leader I would make. I was head of the academic department in my high school's Student Body, and I was frickin' pathetic. I was self-conscious and nervous and would sweat and sweat and sweat before every meeting that I had to lead. Half of the time, I could see my members looking at me sympathetically, probably thinking, "The poor girl. She's wetting her pants."

I was even more scared once I started reading leadership books, in the hope of mending my sweaty leadership ways. The books said that a leader has to be charismatic, must have "presence", and I was sure I had none. Anywho, with dogged determination and a healthy dose of naivety, I marched onwards and told people about my idea for a foundation anyway. There must be a reward system for naive persistence in the world, because I'm sure at one point God said to His helpers, "Oy, she's tried enough. Let's send her some highly qualified, easy-to-lead people so that she can have a go at her dream."

And that's what happened to me.

True, there are many others who have given their priceless help with my foundation, and I couldn't have done much without them. But the heroes I'm talking about today are the people who work on my foundation constantly. They're the ones who are carrying out our activities and dealing with our problems every day -- the petty stuff and the big issues. They don't know how much I appreciate them -- in those days when the weather is bleak, or when something goes wrong at uni, or when there's just too much to do and I'm at the brink of frustration, or when someone just stings me with criticism, or when it's just a shitty day overall, a simple message from them or a short chat never fails to brighten me up. The whole world can go mad and yet when I hear good news about my foundation from them, all is well.

An old friend once remarked that I'm a housewife inside, and unfortunately that's very true. Cooking for others is how I show my love and appreciation for someone (well, that and giving a big bear hug, but I probably shouldn't do that to the boys, I don't wanna scare them). I'm afraid I wasn't born to be cool. I wish I could just hug each and every one of my heroes and cook up a storm for them and feed them for days on end. I often dream about the meal that I would cook for them once I have the chance. But for now, these cupcakes will have to do.

The greatest thing about them is that they're not just pleasant to work with -- they also make really great friends. That's a rare combination in an organisation and I consider myself extremely lucky! I always quietly regret that I didn't have the chance to get to know these people better before moving away to the Netherlands. I often feel bad when I email them just to ask them to do something for Future Minds. I would really love to just chat with them sometimes, over something trivial, just getting to know them. I do know some things about them, though, and it is these things that make them great comrades.

Alfa is the best company you can have if you want to go to the kitchen, have a coffee break and munch on cake while standing over the kitchen counter. She doesn't judge you if you eat too much and makes you laugh with her funny-but-endearing kitchen routines, like adding excessive salt to anything and everything. I have many kitchen memories with her.

Tasya has that rare combination of being so accomplished and admirable, and yet unthreatening. I think that's because she's really down-to-earth and doesn't hold back from telling you about her personal struggles. She makes you feel very special when she shares her thoughts and worries with you.

Ucup is one of the most genuine people I know. He's very authentic in the sense that he stays true to the kind of person he is, and he's cool with it. I feel comfortable talking to him because he's very open and doesn't hold back -- people who hold back just make me confused.

Arin is my definition of a cool woman. She makes funny jokes, comes up with smart one-liners and just has an aura of ease about her. She's the kind of person you want to invite to your party because she'll just liven it up!

Chita is super fun -- there are many moments when I wish that she would be here with me and my friends. She apologizes a lot because she's afraid of making mistakes, but she really doesn't need to, because she's awesome and does a great job at what she does anyway. You can have a great conversation with her.

Ghufron wows me because he dreams big, really big. When I first got to know him, I had a feeling that he wouldn't let you in on himself too quickly. I was delighted to find out later that we share many common interests, and I can't wait to work together with him on his projects.

Kris is just a really nice guy. It touches me how much he puts into his work at Future Minds Foundation -- he exceeded my expectations, and then some more.

Titut is that wise friend you'd like to go to when you have guy issues or just random life questions in general. She will calm you down with her sensible and gentle approach -- her advice is always well thought out, never brash or juvenile.

Adit is a really charming person and he doesn't even know it. He makes you feel really comfortable around him because he's just a great friend. Sometimes he makes me feel bad because I feel so evil compared to him, but, being a great friend, he wouldn't agree with that.

Reni makes me laugh with her unexpected, random comments. She also has real patience with children, which is not something you can say about a lot of people. 

Farid came across as really quiet at first, but then I found out how brilliant and knowledgeable and passionate he is about his field. I'd love to have a long conversation with him one day about spirituality and religion, just learning from his wealth of knowledge.

Tika has that motherly feel about her, and although I'm not sure if she'd like to hear that, it's actually a really great quality. The housewife in me found a company in the housewife in her -- I have a memory of us getting excited over grocery shopping in Maastricht and making corn and eggplant fritters. She's just really sweet!

Icha and I had a great conversation the other day about Future Minds. I didn't know that she'd told many people about Future Minds, and how passionate she is about it. She reminds me that sometimes there are probably many people who support me more than I know, and I'm not even aware of it. She totally made my day.

Ganes is the kind of person that cracks you up a lot with her unintentional jokes. She made me feel really special when she invited me to her birthday party, just after knowing her briefly. But I think that's how she is -- she just includes people and makes you feel like part of the gang.

Ika and I haven't had much time to get to know each other, but I'd really like to know her better. She seems like a genuine and nice person, the kind you want to be close friends with. I hope I get to have many cosy conversations with her when I see her again.

So, you see, these are the reasons why they deserve cupcakes. That's why at midnight yesterday, instead of going to bed, I whipped up a batch of these cupcakes.

Heroes and cupcakes...They go together in my book. Here's one to each one of you, guys. Couldn't have done it without you.

With love,

Annisa

ps. And for those of you who wonder what the hell I'm gonna do with all these cupcakes...I'm gonna knock on my landlord's door and surprise him with these cupcakes. And give some to the lady who sells newspaper in front of the supermarket. And my hairdresser. And save most for exam nutrition for my housemates (err...did I say nutrition?). And pop one into my mouth, and wash it down with a glass of cold milk.

Chocolate Cupcakes

Recipe adapted from http://www.tartelette.blogspot.com

2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/8 teaspoon salt
2 sticks (8 oz) unsalted butter, at room temperature
1 cup granulated sugar
4 large eggs, at room temperature
6 ounces chocolate, a mix of milk and dark, melted and cooled
1 cup milk

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Sift together the flour, baking soda, and salt and set aside.

In a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, mix the butter and sugar on medium speed until airy and creamy. Add the eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition (scrape down the sides if necessary). Still on medium speed, add the chocolate and mixing until well incorporated. Add the flour, baking soda and salt alternating with the milk. Make sure that all the ingredients are well incorporated but do not overbeat. With each addition, beat until the ingredients are incorporated, but do not overbeat. 

Spoon the batter into cupcake liners, filling them about 2/3 of the way full. Bake for 20–25 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center of the cupcake comes out clean.

Whipped Ganache Frosting

12 ounces (360 gr) good quality chocolate, a mix of milk and dark
2 cups (500ml) heavy cream

Place the chocolate in a medium size bowl and set aside. In a large saucepan set over medium heat, bring the cream to a simmer. Pour the hot cream over the chocolate and let sit for a couple of minutes. Stir the cream and chocolate together gently until the mass becomes smooth and shiny. Let cool and refrigerate until very cold. When ready to use, whip the ganache until it is holds its shape and spreads easily. Use as soon as it is made or it will be too stiff to spread. If this happens, just reheat it on top of a double boiler to melt it again, and repeat the cooling and whipping process. If your chocolate is less than 72% bittersweet, add 2 more ounces before adding the hot cream.

Spread on the baked and cooled cupcakes. Smooth out with a bread knife.

Name Plates

1 bar of white chocolate, chopped up

1/4 bar of milk chocolate, chopped up

wax or baking paper 

a round-shaped cookie cutter

a toothpick

Boil a pot of water. Place a heatproof bowl over the pot, with the bottom of the bowl not touching the water. Place the chopped up white chocolate bar on the bowl until melted. Be careful not to get ANY water in the melted chocolate!

Place the wax or baking paper on a flat surface. Pour the melted chocolate on the wax or baking paper, spread out and smooth out with a bread knife. The result should be no less than 1/4 cm thick. Cool until almost hard. Cut into rounds with the cookie cutter. Cool again until the name plates are harder. Carefully lift each name plate off the paper and place on a plate.

With the same method as before, melt the milk chocolate (using a new, clean bowl). Wait for the melted chocolate to cool a bit. If it's too hot, when you use it to write on the name plate, it will melt the name plate.

Once slightly cooled, dip a toothpick in the melted chocolate and use it to write on the name plates. Be careful with the finished name plates -- do not touch them and let them dry on their own.

Place on baked and frosted cupcakes.

Mexican Chicken, Tortilla & Lime Soup - My Way

My guilty pleasure is a little bit different from most people's. 

It involves a voluptuous woman, some serenading music, a lot of heat, a lot of fire, and a lot of leisurely stirring and grinding. Before things get multiple interpretations, perhaps it's wise for me to explain that that would be me, cooking up a storm in the comfort of my own kitchen, while listening to Nigella Lawson cooking shows. 

Yes. I know. I said that. Cooking shows. I'm not a cool person.

Nigella Lawson is probably the only woman in the world who can earn a living by cooking things literally drowned in butter and cream and still get hailed as one of the most beautiful and sexiest women on TV. A gorgeous face, elegant composure and some demure British accent would surely get you quite far in that industry, but her real charm is her clever way with words (she's also a writer) and her unabashedly joyful way of enjoying food. It is not for nothing that she is called the queen of food porn. 

But what really draws me to her is how calming her shows are. The shows are definitely well-packaged -- dim, warm lighting, calming music, a cosy-looking kitchen and equally "cosy" dishes...Comfort food, really. All that combined just puts me in the best of moods. Forget meditation, I feel peaceful and emotionally recharged after an evening spent cooking with Nigella. Just me and my kitchen, a pot bubbling on the stove, the oven humming its low hum, and Nigella on my laptop -- not many things beat that.

This afternoon was just like that -- me, Nigella and my mexican lime soup.

This soup is a mingling of tangy, hot, sour and savoury. Topped with some crisp tortilla chips and creamy avocado, it is one of those perfect soups for a cold grey day (although I'm sure in Mexico they don't wait for a cold grey day to make this soup). The sour note is so strong that it almost takes you by surprise, but for a lime lover like me, this is a plus. The sweetness of the avocado works well to balance out the tang of the broth. The grilled chicken and the stock are what make it savoury. I would recommend pan-frying the chicken breast yourself -- save all the chicken-y juice that gather in the pan and add that to the soup for extra richness.

My Version of Sopa de Lima

adapted from www.soupchick.com

For 4 people

3 wholewheat tortillas

1 medium onion, finely chopped

2 cloves garlic, minced

1 canned chipotle chiles in adobo, minced OR 1 jar of pickled jalapenos + 4 tbsp Mexican hot sauce

1 tsp dried oregano 

2 bay leaves

1 350 gr carton of chopped tomatoes 

5 cups chicken stock 

Juice of 2 limes, plus the rinds 

2 large chicken breasts

Salt, sugar and fresh black pepper to taste

Chopped garnishes (use what you like): diced red onion, chopped avocado, crumbled feta cheese, cilantro leaves

Preheat oven to 220 C. Slice tortillas into thin triangles and spread on a cookie sheet. Leave out on the countertop to get a bit stale while you prepare the soup.

In a stockpot, heat the oil. Sauté onion until soft, 2-3 minutes. Add the garlic and chipotles/jalapenos, and stir for 30 seconds. Add the adobo sauce/hot sauce and tomatoes, stir 2-3 minutes. 

Add stock, lime juice, lime halves, oregano and bay leaf. Bring to a boil, reduce heat, and simmer 10 minutes.

Meanwhile, heat up a bit of oil on a pan, and pan-fry the chicken breasts, sprinkling them with salt and pepper generously. When one side is done, flip and cook the other side; season generously as well. When just cooked thoroughly, take the breasts off the heat. Be careful not to overcook the breasts, as they will get stringy and dry. They will continue to cook from the residual heat. Let them stand for 15 minutes before slicing.

After 15 minutes, slice the chicken into chunky strips and add to the soup. Aeason with salt and pepper. Remove lime rinds. Set soup aside, covered. (If making ahead, cool soup completely, and refrigerate or freeze. Reheat before serving.)

Bake the tortilla strips for 10 minutes, or until crisp and golden brown. Stir half of the tortilla strips into the soup, and let sit for 5 minutes. Ladle soup into individual serving bowls, and garnish with more crispy tortilla strips and your choice of garnishes. 

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For some reason, Mexican food always makes me want to be whisked away to some tropical island...

Spicy Beef and Spinach Stir-Fry

When you were a kid, what did your parents do to make sure that you'll finish your dinner?

Most Western parents I know would just tell their kids that if they don't finish everything on their plate, there'd be no dessert. Or that the kids won't be excused from the dinner table until they gobble everything up. Simple, direct and spot on. Indonesian parents, however, prefer a totally different approach. Either because they don't eat desserts and thus can't use them as a weapon, or because they don't want to be unpopular with the kids, or because of sheer...Indonesian-ness, they choose the scare treatment.

"If you don't finish your food, it will haunt you down in hell."

"Those leftover rice grains will run after you in hell!"

That's actually what my parents said. Or, to be accurate, what my nanny said. And the nanny after that and the nanny after that and the nanny after that. I used to have trouble sleeping at night, images of giant rice grains  running after me, their arms spread out and their little white legs scurrying quickly behind me. I'd pray, "God, please forgive me for not eating those rice grains. I'll finish my food next time. Please don't let them run after me in hell." At that age I was yet to have a clear idea of hell, but I knew that it wasn't a pleasant place, and I was sure that I wouldn't want to have the extra trouble of having food chasing after me. I was also concerned about how stinky the food would be after an eternity of waiting for me to arrive in hell. How I could trouble myself with all these things at the age of eight, I'd never understand.

What do you know...The scare treatment works.

As it turns out, my nannies weren't the only creative ones. My friends, too, have been manipulated by their well-intentioned elders, using all the emotions in the book. Take your pick if you wish to go down this path of parenthood as well:

Guilt: "If you don't finish your rice, Dewi Sri (the goddess of rice in Indonesian mythologies) will cry!" (This one makes me laugh! Which kid cares if Dewi Sri cries?! I was a decent kid, but I didn't give Dewi Sri any thought. I was more scared of the thought that I'd be making some potentially supernatural woman upset. What would she do to me?)

Sympathy: "The rice wants to be eaten by you so badly; if you don't eat it, it will be sad. Don't you feel sorry for them?"

Absolute shocking ridiculousness: "The rice grains used to be big, but because people didn't finish eating them, they became upset and then became small. You have to eat them!"

Something must be said of the effectiveness of this method though...To this day, I still can't leave any rice grains uneaten on my plate. I might leave out bits of meat and vegs that I don't like, but I'll chase those little rice grains before they have any chance of chasing me. 

And now, another form of wisdom that was passed on to me by one of my nannies...Spicy Beef and Spinach Stir-Fry.

For 2 people

350 grams lean minced beef

3 big handfuls of spinach leaves, washed

as much Indonesian sambal as you want 

salty soy sauce to taste

sweet soy sauce (Indonesian kecap manis) to taste

Heat up a little bit of oil on a pan. Sautee the minced beef, breaking them up with a spatula as you go to prevent large chunks of beef. Once they are just cooked through, tip the pan to one side and drain the fat that gathers. I like to drain all the fat -- there will be enough oil added from the sambal later on. Add as much sambal as you like (defrosted if it was previously frozen) and mix well.

Add the spinach leaves to the pan.

Stir everything well. The spinach will slowly wilt.

Add some salty soy sauce and sweet soy sauce to taste, and mix well.

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Don't let the spinach wilt too much before taking this dish off the heat -- the spinach will continue to wilt and cook from the residual heat. Taste for seasoning and serve with lots and lots of rice.

Bon appetit!

Indonesian Sambal

Chili is the star ingredient in my kitchen.

Whether it is a cold windy day in Rotterdam or the peak of summer, my housemates and I are always working these little babies, mixing them in stews, curries or stir-fries. It never made sense to us to adjust our tolerance for chili to the weather -- after all, we all hauled from Indonesia, where it is hot all year long and where chili is eaten all year long as well. We are not macho chili eaters, but a bit of a kick is always welcome. The friendly-faced Turkish man at the Tuesday market already recognizes me -- I'm the girl who always stands for 15 minutes in front of his pile of chilies and pick the best ones, one by one. Plump, fiery-red, blemish-free and juicy ones. Even in the coldest day of winter, I still insisted on picking them one by one myself, cursing the icy wind and not being able to feel my fingers in the cold at the same time. Such is my love.

Sambal, or the Indonesian chili condiment, is very versatile. I make a big batch every few weeks, keep a bit in a jar and the rest in ice-cube trays in the freezer -- once the sambal is frozen, I pop them out of the trays, put them in a ziploc bag and keep them in the freezer. They are very handy for cooking a number of things, or just as a condiment. Simply defrost and use as a base for fried rice, countless stir-fries, stews or curries. There are many variations of sambal, but my version is simple and can be adjusted to your preference later.

To make this, first gather up your cast of characters: fresh chilies, shallots, garlic and some shrimp paste (terasi/belacan). I usually use 2 parts chili, 1 part shallot, 1 part garlic and a few teaspoons of shrimp paste. It's very much a matter of taste, so experience and find out what works for you. It also depends on how spicy your chilies are. If you want milder heat, simply de-seed half or more of your chilies -- don't forget to take out the membranes as well, they are spicy too! Shrimp paste also has a very strong aroma and taste, so use sparingly and add as needed.

Peel and chop everything into medium-sized pieces. Heat up enough oil for deep-frying the spices. Once the oil is hot enough (when you drop a cube of bread into the oil, it should brown in 20 seconds), fry the spices in batches. Do not overcrowd the pan as this will lower the oil temperature, which means it will take longer to fry the spices and the spices will absorb more oil.

Once they are cooked through but not crispy, take them out of the pan with a slotted spoon and place in a big bowl. You don't need to blot them on kitchen paper. Once you have all your ingredients fried, take out your pestle and mortar, salt, sugar, shrimp paste, a clean jar to put your sambal in and a few spoons. Place a little bit of the fried spices on the mortar and sprinkle with some salt, sugar and shrimp paste to taste. The coarse and grainy texture of the salt and sugar will make it easier for you to grind the spices. Be careful not to overcrowd the mortar! 

And just start grinding.

Grind them like you mean it!

And yes, it would be way easier to do this with a bigger mortar -- preferably those deep-sided Thai ones. We just like to do things the painful way sometimes.

Keep grinding the spices in batches, storing them in the jar once finished. How chunky or smooth your sambal is depends solely on your preference. Add a little oil that you used to fry the spices to the sambal -- this will give it a desirable taste and help to preserve it better. Stir well and feel totally accomplished!

You can always adjust the taste of your sambal later -- just add more salt or sugar or shrimp paste or even lime juice. Taste, tweak, taste, tweak...Yummini yum.

We Believe What You Do, Not What You Say

The greatest happiness is to transform one’s feelings into action. – Madame de Stael, French author

I have heard that line over and over in my life. In primary school, in high school, at university, from my friends, from TV, from everywhere. “I want to do something great for my country. I want to contribute to Indonesia.”

How many of us are actually doing something for Indonesia right now?

I believe everyone involved with Indonesian Future Leaders wants to do something great for our country. Otherwise you wouldn’t be here, browsing through their website and reading my article. I’m one of you, too. I’ve always wanted to do something for Indonesia, especially in the field of education. It all started when I studied the Constitution in primary school, like all of you did, and somewhere in there it says that “all citizens have the right to an education.” Well, that’s not true, I thought, I know a bunch of children near my neighborhood who can’t afford to go to school.

I felt sorry for those children, because I liked school and I knew how important education was. “I would do something about this,” I thought, “I would do something when I grow up. When I start working and earning a lot of money, I’d find some underprivileged children and pay for their education. I’d have my own business and use the profit to build a huge public library, with good-quality books, open for everyone for free. There would be a free English class at that library, too.” Then I shoved that dream aside, knowing that I’d come back to it when I have the money and skills to do so. I felt young, full of ideas, enthusiastic and good about myself.

Sounds familiar?

The problem with that thinking is that it begins with, “When I grow up and have the money and skills.” Big dreams are great, but they’re no bigger than the brain cell they occupy until they are put into action. What a lot of people don’t realize is that they can do something about their dreams now. They don’t have to wait until they graduate from high school or university, or until they have a job, or until they join the government or until they have the time. No matter how big your dreams are, there is always a part of it that you can do now. There is always something that you can do. You don’t have to wait any longer to realize your dreams for Indonesia.

Let me give you an example. Say you  want to provide education for underprivileged children, but you’re still a high school student. You can set aside some of your money and use it to send just one child to school, perhaps your becak driver’s son. If you can’t afford it alone, get your friends and relatives to help out, and together pay for the son’s education. Or just donate whatever amount you can to help pay for his education. You’d be surprised at how many people would be grateful for a donation of Rp 20,000/month. Or lend him some books to read. Or give him English lessons for free, once every one or two weeks. Regardless of your age or financial status, or how much time you have, there is always something that you can do. The possibilities are endless.

And you might say, “But that’s kind of a small contribution. You know, just helping one child, just with his English homework, just once every 2 weeks.” Well, it’s already better than not doing anything. Do not underestimate the change you can make on someone’s life. Do not underestimate the impact you can have by helping just one person. Mother Teresa began her massive social movement by helping out one person. Also, do not underestimate what you can do. I once heard a very intelligent scientist say that if each of us would use our full potential, we’d be surprised at what we can do. I was also taught that whatever dreams I have, God has instilled in me the capabilities to make these dreams come true. That is God’s promise. Well, I don’t need further assurances. I can safely say that you and I, my friend, are capable of great things.

However, I find that people are also good at making excuses. “But I want to do things big.” I really understand that, because I used to have an all-or-nothing attitude: I want to do everything perfectly, or not at all. I can tell you that it is a very destructive attitude. Most of the time, people can’t do things perfectly, especially when they just start out, but that shouldn’t stop people from doing things. Any amount of contribution matters. Also, if you never start somewhere, you’ll never learn anything about that field, and you’ll never be able to do it well! You have to start somewhere, and you can build your dream from there.

“I want to wait for inspiration.” To quote Frank Tibolt, the great writer and success trainer, “We should be taught not to wait for inspiration to start a thing. Action always generates inspiration. Inspiration seldom generates action.” So, if your passion for Indonesia concerns the environment, you can start something small and doable, perhaps in your neighborhood. Maybe you can ask your neighbors to gather their paper and plastic trash separately for two weeks, and pass these on to you. You can bring them to a recycling centre and use the money from the sale to buy non-plastic shopping bags for every household. Then maybe, as you do this, you’ll find some more inspiration about how you can contribute.

Some people also say, “But I don’t have the time. I’m very busy and I have exams coming soon.” I have found that it’s not true when people say that they don’t have the time – they just don’t make the time. The reality is, time is limited and we have to make priorities as a result. If people don’t get around to doing something, it usually means they don’t make that thing a priority. So, if you think you don’t have the time to start working on your dreams, you need to ask yourself if these dreams are a high priority for you. Also, I find that as you get older, you only get busier. If you’re busy when you’re in high school, you’ll only get busier at university, and even more once you start working, get married, have children, and have six hundred other things to worry about. The way I see it, the only solution is to acquire time-management skills and learn how to prioritize. And remember, you can adjust your contribution to your schedule. If you can’t do it once a week, do it once every two weeks, or even once a month. But it’s not an excuse to not do anything.

The other type of excuse is familiar for me, because I used to do it. “But those people could realize their dreams because they’re much more privileged than me. One of them even graduated from Harvard. They’re richer and have a lot of networks. That one is the son of an Ambassador.” I used this excuse until one day during my university time in Yogyakarta. I came across this old lady, a beggar, and from my neighbors I learned that she took care of the street children in that neighborhood. She made them take a shower a few times a week in her small hut, and fed them whatever she could find. She was helping others although she was only a beggar. She made me realize that you can never be too poor – or too anything – to help out.

All these excuses basically lead to waiting – waiting for your life to start, the life that you want, the life where you get to realize your dreams and make great contributions to the country you love. And waiting certainly is easy, as easy as criticizing our government for not doing this and that. But where is the fulfillment in that? Where is the joy and where is the result?

Dear friends, do not let yourself think that fulfillment, joy and positive result only lies with the grand acts in life. Fulfillment, joy and positive result comes to the people who take a courageous step toward their goal, no matter how small that step is. There really is happiness in action. If you truly want to do something for this country, then do something. As Helen Keller has so eloquently said, “I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do.” The opportune time for your dreams is now.

With love,

Annisa